The first 50 members join free for a year
We’re opening the members’ rooms with a small group of people who are separating, or have been through it. The first 50 to join get a year’s membership free. It normally costs £49. We won’t ask for card details, and it doesn’t renew.
The members’ rooms open as soon as all 50 places have gone, and on Monday 4 January 2027 at the latest.
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First, sign in
Use an email address that only you can see. We’ll send you a link and a 6-digit code, so there’s no password to remember. Signing in doesn’t take a place. You claim it on the next step.
Claim your place
You’re signed in as . The membership will be for this email address.
You’re one of our first 50 members
The members’ rooms open as soon as all 50 places have gone, and on Monday 4 January 2027 at the latest. We’ll email you the day they open. The library and organiser are ready now.
When you choose a nickname in the rooms, it will carry a Founding badge. We’ve emailed you the details. Start with the member library or the organiser.
You’re already a member
There’s nothing more to do. Your membership already includes the members’ rooms, the member library and the organiser.
All 50 free places have gone
Thank you for your interest. You can join for £49 a year, which includes the members’ rooms, the library and the organiser. The library and organiser are ready straight away.
What the year includes
- The members’ rooms. Talk with other people going through a separation, in rooms for thinking about it, going through it and life after, plus rooms for dads, mums and co-parenting. They open as soon as all 50 founding places have gone, and on Monday 4 January 2027 at the latest.
- A nickname, never your name. Nobody in the rooms sees your real name, email address or phone number.
- Moderated from day one. Every message is checked before it appears, and reports come straight to the divorcd team.
- The member library and organiser. The money workbook, co-parenting planner, separation budget, letters to fill in and a finances builder that follows Form E. Ready now.
- Discreet emails. They come from “DL Members”, with subject lines that don’t mention divorce.
Questions? Email [email protected]. If you’re struggling right now, Samaritans are free, any time, on 116 123.