Dating again after divorce

There is no right time to start dating after a separation. Some people want company quickly and others wait years. When you feel ready, apps and sites differ mainly in who uses them and how matching works, from quick swiping to longer compatibility questionnaires.

11 organisations listed. Listings are for information, not endorsements. Details can change, so check with each organisation.

Dating again organisations

CompanySome free help

Hinge

Dating app "designed to be deleted".

App · International

CompanySome free help

Bumble

Dating app where either person can start the conversation.

App · International

CompanySome free help

eharmony

Compatibility-based matching for long-term relationships.

App · Online · UK

CompanySome free help

Match

One of the longest-running dating sites.

App · Online · UK

CompanySome free help

Plenty of Fish

Dating app and website where you can chat and match for free.

App · Online · International

CompanySome free help

OurTime

Dating site for men and women over 50.

Online · App · UK

CompanyPaid

SilverSingles

Dating site for singles over 50 looking for a lasting relationship.

Online · App · International

CompanyPaid

EliteSingles

Dating site for professionals looking for a serious relationship.

Online · App · International

CompanySome free help

Zoosk

Dating app designed for serious relationships.

App · Online · International

CompanySome free help

Stitch

Companionship and social community for people over 50.

Online · App · International

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When are you ready to date again?

It is worth waiting until you can talk about your separation without it taking over the conversation, and until arrangements for your children are settled. If you have children, think about when and how you would introduce a new partner, and talk to your ex about it first if you can.

How much do dating apps cost?

Most apps are free to join, and charge for a subscription with extra features. Compare what the free version allows before you pay, and check how to cancel, as many subscriptions renew automatically.

How to choose a dating app and stay safe

Choose a service by the kind of relationship you want and the people you are likely to meet there. Keep early conversations on the app, meet somewhere public, tell a friend where you are going and never send money to someone you haven't met.

Guides that may help

Other kinds of help

This page is general information, not legal or financial advice. Facts checked 20 October 2026.

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